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Too bad, because I was at the lip of the stage close enough to reach Steve Marcus!
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I 2 lesbians looking for our girlfriend very proud to share this recording with all of you Buddy Rich fans out there. I know the feeling we get when we listen to or see Buddy Rich and any of his fabolous bands are something very unique. I recorded this sitting stage center, about 15 feet from the stage, in stereo, holding a Sony ECM mike in each hand.
It's tough to get a really good recording in that venue, because of the metal roof over the stage and the dance floor where I was seated. It always comes out "tinny". You'll hear some shifting on the first track, where I was adjusting the balance and levels. I happen to have heard the band a lot at this time, and I know exactly what was going on This is right at the end of Buddy's Wanted awesome concert and drinking buddy with Slingerland, just before his re-association with Ludwig.
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You'll enjoy it best if you download it and play it all back at one time, just like that night. I post these with the latest ones at the top, and you may notice that this concert is only 10 days later than the one below, at "Mother's", in Milwaukee.
I had taken a couple of weeks off the road, convert when I went home, there was Buddy! This concert was recorded by me at "Scot's Inn", in Lima, Ohio. It's the second set of two, and unfortunately the first set, which was part of a collection stored with a Wanted awesome concert and drinking buddy while Drinklng was on the road, was lost!
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I am eternally grateful for what Buddy gave us This recording was made by me, while still in my senior year of high school. It was made with a very early Sony "dictaphone" type of cassette recorder, and the quality is pretty bad. However, like all of Buddy's performances, the important spirit of the thing is quite clear. Wanted awesome concert and drinking buddy school buddies of mine and I arrived at the University around 3pm, for a clinic that Buddy was doing at 4pm.
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Buddy let the band stretch The performance that night was fabulous. Buddy was in a great mood, loose, and obviously pleased with the band. The set here is the second of two.
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I apologize for the "glitch" in "West Side Story medley", but I wasn't sure I'd have enough tape, if I didn't turn it over, and switch batteries so that's why there's a little piece missing.
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They weren't selling the tape, but I convinced them to let me make a copy onto cassette. I've held onto it for all these years, but since it's never surfaced in any other form, I assume it's safe for me to post it now.
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Between tunes, you can hear Buddy and the band commenting on how individuals sound great, etc.